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Au pairs - childcare

Au pairs are young women (very occasionally men), aged between 17 and 27, who come to the UK from a number of European countries. Their main purpose in being here is to learn the language, and they live with a family who offer a small amount of pocket money (Ł35 per week) and board and lodging in return for help in the house.

Au pairs' working hours are limited by the Home Office to five hours a day, or seven hours in the case of an ‘au pair plus’, who would earn a little more. She should have two free days a week, and be able to pursue her studies.

Advantages

Since she lives in, part of her salary is in the form of board and lodging, so cash costs are low
She will be available to babysit in the evenings
She will do some housework

Disadvantages

She may have no experience of looking after children
An au pair would be inappropriate to care for a young baby
You will need space to accommodate her
She may be homesick
You may need to be very clear about issues like smoking, use of the telephone and boyfriends

Where to next?

Choosing childcare - your options.
How to spot a great nursery.
How to choose a great childminder.
Keeping it in the family - our article explores the issue of family looking after the baby