Your baby now
completely fills your womb, and there's less space for movement. You'll still feel the
occasional kick or jab, but the movements will be fewer.
Physically, you're probably feeling uncomfortable. Your back and pelvis may ache, and
you feel heavy, ungainly and weary. This is the beached whale stage at its
worst.
Emotionally, you may feel calm and focused, or fed up and impatient, or excited, or
nervous, or maybe all of these.
Some women experience a nesting instinct - an urge to get their home ready for the
arrival of their baby. If you have the energy, get on with household tasks that you won't
have time for after your baby's born.
You may be experiencing practice contractions
more strongly. If you are, use them to practise deep breathing. At some point during this
period, or maybe a week or two later, these contractions will turn into stronger
contractions that come closer and closer together and begin to open up your cervix. These
you will definitely feel! After all these weeks, you'll finally be in labour, and will soon be holding your baby
in your arms for the first time.
The likelihood of your baby arriving on its due date is about 1 in 20, though 8 out of
10 babies arrive within 10 days of when they're due. Even so,
don't be surprised if you go one, two or even more weeks beyond
your due date (remember it's only an Estimated Date of
Delivery!) Although this waiting time can be very difficult, it will
pass. One thing is sure: sooner - or later - your baby will be
born. |
In the last month of
pregnancy, your baby is gaining about 200gm a week. All systems are now functioning and he
is ready to begin life as a separate being. Most of the fine hair that was covering his
body has rubbed off, though some babies are born with a little of this remaining,
especially across the top of the back. Much of the vernix (see 17-20 weeks) has gone too,
though there's often still some in the creases of the skin. During
this time your baby will be getting into position ready for labour
to start. It may help him get into a favourable position if you
spend some time each day in a forward-leaning position - kneeling
on the floor, leaning on a stool, maybe, or sitting at a table,
legs apart and resting your arms on the table top. Swimming on
your front is also good. When resting try to avoid sitting slumped
backwards, feet up. Instead lie well over on your side, knees
bent. |
Finalise your
preparations for labour. Make sure your birth plan is ready. Keep a list of important
phone numbers near the phone so that you can contact your midwife or the hospital quickly
if you need to. If you have your medical notes yourself, put them where you can find them
easily and carry them with you when you go out.
Make sure that you know how to contact your birth partner at all times. If you're
having your baby in hospital, get your transport organised - fill up the car with petrol,
or arrange a lift with a neighbour or friend, or find out how to get an ambulance.
Get your hair cut - you'll be too busy for hair appointments in the first few weeks
after your baby's born.
You'll probably be having weekly antenatal appointments.
All pregnancies are different, so don't worry if you're not experiencing everything
exactly as it says here. |