Who do you give it to?

You may not want to give it to anybody. Many couples find that simply making a birth plan is the important part of the process. Having talked through the options and possibilities, you may feel that you are both much clearer in your own minds and can simply talk things through with your carers once you are in labour.

On the other hand, you may decide to give it to your midwife when you have an antenatal check, or your obstetrician if you are receiving specialist care. It can be helpful to talk over your wishes with them, as well as giving them the written plan. Arrange for a copy to be put in your notes, so that the midwife on duty will read it when she knows you are coming into hospital in labour.